Amanda Thompson, Director, Endurance Financial

Rebuilding from Hidden Scars: My Money Story

"For much of my life, I believed that financial success was about numbers—earning more, saving wisely, and making smart investments. But life has a way of teaching us lessons that numbers alone can’t. My true financial transformation began when my life and business crumbled—not because of my choices, but because of trauma I never asked for.

Like many women, I carried hidden scars. I had spent years building something I was proud of, only to watch it unravel due to circumstances beyond my control. It wasn’t just the financial loss that shook me—it was the loss of identity, confidence, and security. I had always been strong, capable, and independent. Yet, suddenly, I felt powerless.

In the depths of that struggle, I realised something profound: financial empowerment isn’t just about wealth accumulation. It’s about aligning money with our deepest values. When everything fell apart, I had to ask myself—who am I beyond my success? What do I truly want? What kind of life do I want to rebuild?

I started making decisions differently. Instead of chasing financial milestones for their own sake, I began setting money goals that were deeply connected to my values—freedom, purpose, and security. I let go of shame around financial setbacks and allowed myself to rebuild slowly, with intention.

One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned is that money is not just a tool; it’s a reflection of how we see ourselves. For years, I had unknowingly tied my worth to financial achievement. When that was stripped away, I was forced to redefine wealth on my own terms. True wealth, I realised, is having the ability to make choices that align with who you truly are. It’s about financial resilience, not just financial success.

Today, I help others navigate their own financial journeys—not just by teaching strategy, but by helping them connect their money decisions with their values. Because when we build wealth in a way that aligns with who we are, it’s not just about financial security—it’s about reclaiming our power.

If my story resonates with even one woman who feels like she’s lost control of her financial future, I hope she knows this: setbacks do not define you. Your money story is still being written. And you have the power to shape it, on your own terms."